1) My article of choice was
Leave it Alone by H. Burke Peterson, written almost 15 years ago, but still true today.
2)I explored several pages of the k2weboutlaws website. I also watched 4 segments of the Frontline program
Growing up Online. I plan to watch the rest of the program especially the section on Cyberbullying.
3) My most important "take-aways" from these programs and website are that parents need to be aware of what their children are doing online. I agree completely with the parents who remove the computers from the bedroom. The computer should be in a public, community place in the home. However, I also agree that if a child decides to use internet resources in other places they can find a way to access them. Parents need to start young, teaching their children what an amazing resource the internet is and how to use it safely.
4) I talked with two of my children who are in elementary school to ask them what they knew about internet safety. They already know that the computer needs to be turned off immediately if something inappropriate show up. They know to show me or an older family member if a window opens that may contain a virus. My younger children do not have email or Facebook. they do use safe sites such as Build a Bear or Wiggi World. We watched the short video from McGruff the Crime Dog about internet information. My 7-year old had the 4 things you never give out over the internet down right away: name, phone #, address and school name. I am really glad we had a chance to talk because my teenage boys also came into the conversation and reinforced what I had shared. My kids were open and receptive to learning about safety on the internet. I am glad that we can talk about it without the anger or accusations that some of the parents in the videos encountered. I think that reopening the dialogue about the internet will help us to continue using it safely.